Yes, I read a blogpost by Bienaime Baraza from the talented Sautisol.
I almost cried.
I always thought I was the only one who felt lonely... well, me and my sister who tells me things.
Anyway, that's not the point. The point is that every girl wants to meet someone who will want to get to know her genuinely.
Bienaime was quick to point out that with him being famous, he has not really had time to get to meet and know women genuinely. It is true, with fame, people want to know you as the famous person, not as the person who just needs a little love.
I can't say I know exactly what he goes through, but I can testify to people wanting to get with the girl who they knew back then, and who they thought was pretty hard to date.
Yes, I am pretty hard to date. I can never make up my mind. I am sure I am not all alone in this problem, so stop giving me judgy eyes! -_-
GRR!
~*~*~*~*
I have little dating experience, and this was from mostly watching people I know date. And maybe, or maybe not me.
My mum told me she doesn't want me thinking they will get me a husband. I don't want to have a boyfriend and I do not want a creep or weirdo or... whatever. I know that maybe I have almost been crazy in love with someone I knew, but then again, I do not know if I was really in love, or I just had all those feelings from being lonely.
Sometimes, I look at my favorite musicians and I wish I was them. Then I read in between the lines they write on their tweets and I realize that maybe I should never envy them.
However, you never realize this if you are all jealous. Some of these emotions make us blind to what is really in front of us.
So, when I was busy spending nights wishing that I had brothers who would get on my nerves like some four lads who happen to be my role models, one of them was actually feeling the loneliness I felt.
I must say I feel so much better right now. Really, not being sacarstic or anything. I thought I was coming on too strong but... yeah, turns out I am not!
YEEEEEIIIIIYYYYY!
*dance party*
All a girl needs is a little love. Just a little love, it can go a long way.
So, what say you? Want to make a girl happy? Give her a little love.
*~*~*~*
There is this guy I knew in 1st year. He was so cute and everything. Then he went cray cray and do you know what he told me the other day? That he does not miss me.
SILLY BOY!
Why the heck would you even call me?
Go stand under a cold shower. I do not like you anymore! I know you are not sorry for what you told, did and wanted from me.
Girlie, if he wasn't respecting you then, what makes you think he will respect you now? He is not the right guy for you, do not let him in. Just let him go *Frozen*
If you don't wanna be nice, I aint gonna be nice. If he doesn't love you, he doesn't care. Read and see the signs before you make the GREATEST mistake in your life!
~*~*~*~*
On a lighter note, me kicking the dude to the side gives me one less problem.
I got one less problem without you
i got one less one less problem.
Hate me, see if I care. Words can never break my bones, and your sticks and stones are never gonna hurt me, I got a shield from Bella Swan, so beat it! I am childish to you, but I write what I want, so go before I kick you to the curb. #ReallyDontCare Him going gives me more time to see if one day Bienaime and I can go for a coffee date.I really wanna have a friend I can have fun with and it won't be awkward when I tell him that I like how he looks like a chipmunk when he chews. Haha... I was kidding. Do Not crucify me. Okay, bye!
Have a lovely time everyone! Enjoy the girly!
~Me
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Okay, have fun. BYE!
Friday, 22 August 2014
Wednesday, 6 August 2014
Lesson 5: Pretty and Cute
When it comes to beauty, and someone asks me what I have to say, I feel like a deer caught in the headlights.
Why?
This is because I know for a fact that what applies to me as beauty does not apply for others.
If someone asked me what I would do to look beautiful, one of the things I'd tell them was to be themselves. I know, some people would say they are 'nothing like themselves' but i would tell them to look a little harder.
Yes, a lot of trouble to look beautiful, isn't it?
Who said being pretty doesn't hurt?
~*~*~*~*
Beyonce says it in her single, 'Pretty Hurts' that when she was younger, her mum told her all she needed to do was to wear clean dresses and be clean. However, when she got into showbiz, it became oh, so much more.
It is true. Showbiz has made people trade normal decent skirts for minis and bikinis. I wouldn't blame someone for trying to keep up with the trends. I would only blame them for losing themselves in the process.
Do you want to know what is pretty and cute without even trying? a kitten! Oh my gosh they are so pretty and cute and ... oh my goodness! You know, I am being pretty euphoric over here. They come in all shades and colours. Some have stripes while others don't. Others are so feisty while others are the sweetest little balls of fur you will ever meet. What about when they mew? Oh my gosh! They sound so cute.
They look cute, they sound cute and they are cute!
Yes, I just sidled the topic of Kittens in to forget all about pretty women and tips. Unbelievable? Yes, that's me. I am just so girly it hurts!
Please note that no one walked in with a kitten.
~*~*~*~*
Okay, here are my rules on how to be pretty and cute.
#1 Believe it
Well, your mama might have told you that you are beautiful, and pretty. Your papa too. Now, your boyfriend may have mentioned the same thing too. I skipped brothers because i got none, and moststories I read, the brother usually says the opposite of what you look like.
You have to believe it to see it. I remember I had these awful friends I would complement but they would never say the same to me back in 2nd form. Anyway, the only thing they thought looked good were my hips. To say that I understand confidence issues is the least. I KNOW confidence issues seems more appropriate to say.
#2 Be It
You wanna be pretty and cute? Well, you have to BE pretty. This means playing at dress up more often. Look good, wear your make-up or tone down on it. Have fun and enjoy the endorphins from all the compliments you get. Still thinking you don't know how to be pretty? Wait for the next point.
#3 DIFY
Okay, i added 'F' to DIY. I mean to say, 'Do It For Yourself' because you wanna be pretty for yourself first, then for others later.
If you never felt pretty enough, you have to make yourslef pretty enough. For me, dressing up when i am not going out works pretty well to alleviate the feeling. You do know that if you do not feel pretty, you can never look pretty. Believe that you deserve to feel pretty and go for it.
#4 Haters Are Gonna Hate, Potatoes Are Gonna Potate
Yes, I read a lot of things online, do NOT hate me. repeat, do NOT hate me. This is my blog, feel free to stop reading if you are fed up already.
Haters will always be there. To tell you the truth, I have shoulder length hair, I have grown it since 2006 and now, it looks really good. Yes, and I have haters. They hate me for being me. I have shoulder length hair they can't see. HATE. I have pretty eyes. HATE. I have a waistline. HATE. I have a life. HATE. I do not have a boyfriend. HATE. I am brown and chubby and plump. HATE. I wear prescribed lenses and dark glasses. HATE.
People are gonna hate you for every little thing you do. They might as well hate you while you are feeling pretty cute. You know you will be laughing while they hating. You will be laughing so hard, you can't stop...
Yeah, forget the potato thing.
#5 No Guys Allowed
If you wanna be pretty, you have to let your partner stop telling you that you are for you to feel like you are. If you keep feeling like this, it proves that you got confidence issues and other problems that can't be absorbed by a tissue. (Where is Kantai by the way?)
So, what do you do when you have confidence issues and other personal problems? You figure them out. Start by soul searching. Vlose your eyes and get to know you. Remember you might fall asleep in the process. Do not say i did not warn you!
After you have found yourself, you can happily let a guy flatter you!
#6 Relax
Are you a model?
Are you a beautician?
if your answers are no. then you can have your lazy days. Schedule them to days when you have nothing to do outside, Sit in and treat yourself to facials and whatnots. If you can't afford to do a facial, then spend time in doing hobbies, pottering around in the garden, doing whatever you love. YOU DESERVE that day off. Do NOT allow yourself to be lied to. Spending time with yourself makes you happy and you will have this irresistable glow and joy that no one could resist.
#7 Reminders
Always reind yourself how important you are to yourself. Find positives you love about you and work on magnifying them. Take your negatives and work with them. For me, I love my voice, it gets me happy. I dislike my body size, but i am finding ways to work with it.
Also, remind yourself to thank God for giving you what you got. Not everyone has everything you know.
~*~*~*~*
I am wearing pink nail polish by the way. It was that time of the month, i was bored...
I gotta go, my dad just walked in. Bye!
http://youtu.be/UYx-uBflwAo this is where you can find my newest YouTube video. Have fun!
~*~*~*~*
For real, bye!
Love,
~Zainab
Why?
This is because I know for a fact that what applies to me as beauty does not apply for others.
If someone asked me what I would do to look beautiful, one of the things I'd tell them was to be themselves. I know, some people would say they are 'nothing like themselves' but i would tell them to look a little harder.
Yes, a lot of trouble to look beautiful, isn't it?
Who said being pretty doesn't hurt?
~*~*~*~*
Beyonce says it in her single, 'Pretty Hurts' that when she was younger, her mum told her all she needed to do was to wear clean dresses and be clean. However, when she got into showbiz, it became oh, so much more.
It is true. Showbiz has made people trade normal decent skirts for minis and bikinis. I wouldn't blame someone for trying to keep up with the trends. I would only blame them for losing themselves in the process.
Do you want to know what is pretty and cute without even trying? a kitten! Oh my gosh they are so pretty and cute and ... oh my goodness! You know, I am being pretty euphoric over here. They come in all shades and colours. Some have stripes while others don't. Others are so feisty while others are the sweetest little balls of fur you will ever meet. What about when they mew? Oh my gosh! They sound so cute.
They look cute, they sound cute and they are cute!
Yes, I just sidled the topic of Kittens in to forget all about pretty women and tips. Unbelievable? Yes, that's me. I am just so girly it hurts!
Please note that no one walked in with a kitten.
~*~*~*~*
Okay, here are my rules on how to be pretty and cute.
#1 Believe it
Well, your mama might have told you that you are beautiful, and pretty. Your papa too. Now, your boyfriend may have mentioned the same thing too. I skipped brothers because i got none, and moststories I read, the brother usually says the opposite of what you look like.
You have to believe it to see it. I remember I had these awful friends I would complement but they would never say the same to me back in 2nd form. Anyway, the only thing they thought looked good were my hips. To say that I understand confidence issues is the least. I KNOW confidence issues seems more appropriate to say.
#2 Be It
You wanna be pretty and cute? Well, you have to BE pretty. This means playing at dress up more often. Look good, wear your make-up or tone down on it. Have fun and enjoy the endorphins from all the compliments you get. Still thinking you don't know how to be pretty? Wait for the next point.
#3 DIFY
Okay, i added 'F' to DIY. I mean to say, 'Do It For Yourself' because you wanna be pretty for yourself first, then for others later.
If you never felt pretty enough, you have to make yourslef pretty enough. For me, dressing up when i am not going out works pretty well to alleviate the feeling. You do know that if you do not feel pretty, you can never look pretty. Believe that you deserve to feel pretty and go for it.
#4 Haters Are Gonna Hate, Potatoes Are Gonna Potate
Yes, I read a lot of things online, do NOT hate me. repeat, do NOT hate me. This is my blog, feel free to stop reading if you are fed up already.
Haters will always be there. To tell you the truth, I have shoulder length hair, I have grown it since 2006 and now, it looks really good. Yes, and I have haters. They hate me for being me. I have shoulder length hair they can't see. HATE. I have pretty eyes. HATE. I have a waistline. HATE. I have a life. HATE. I do not have a boyfriend. HATE. I am brown and chubby and plump. HATE. I wear prescribed lenses and dark glasses. HATE.
People are gonna hate you for every little thing you do. They might as well hate you while you are feeling pretty cute. You know you will be laughing while they hating. You will be laughing so hard, you can't stop...
Yeah, forget the potato thing.
#5 No Guys Allowed
If you wanna be pretty, you have to let your partner stop telling you that you are for you to feel like you are. If you keep feeling like this, it proves that you got confidence issues and other problems that can't be absorbed by a tissue. (Where is Kantai by the way?)
So, what do you do when you have confidence issues and other personal problems? You figure them out. Start by soul searching. Vlose your eyes and get to know you. Remember you might fall asleep in the process. Do not say i did not warn you!
After you have found yourself, you can happily let a guy flatter you!
#6 Relax
Are you a model?
Are you a beautician?
if your answers are no. then you can have your lazy days. Schedule them to days when you have nothing to do outside, Sit in and treat yourself to facials and whatnots. If you can't afford to do a facial, then spend time in doing hobbies, pottering around in the garden, doing whatever you love. YOU DESERVE that day off. Do NOT allow yourself to be lied to. Spending time with yourself makes you happy and you will have this irresistable glow and joy that no one could resist.
#7 Reminders
Always reind yourself how important you are to yourself. Find positives you love about you and work on magnifying them. Take your negatives and work with them. For me, I love my voice, it gets me happy. I dislike my body size, but i am finding ways to work with it.
Also, remind yourself to thank God for giving you what you got. Not everyone has everything you know.
~*~*~*~*
I am wearing pink nail polish by the way. It was that time of the month, i was bored...
I gotta go, my dad just walked in. Bye!
http://youtu.be/UYx-uBflwAo this is where you can find my newest YouTube video. Have fun!
~*~*~*~*
For real, bye!
Love,
~Zainab
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